We youngsters claim to have been in love more times than we've passed exams in Engineering colleges! Our love is directed more towards smartphones, books, KFC chicken, cars&bikes, electronic gizmos etc., rather than human beings. Maybe we are too afraid to let our vulnerable self seen to others. And in-spite of all these hurdles, there are those aashiq(s) who proclaim their love to the girl that they always dreamt. But sometimes, the prissie girls misunderstand our aashiq just because of well, lets say, the 'randomness of their ways' or as normal people say 'badluck' of the guy.
Following are few points one should AVOID while proposing a girl of one's dreams:
1. Meet her at some random place and pop out the words "Baby! I Love You" in a jiffy.
You may have known her for ages, but maybe she never noticed you. Its safe to get to know her better and make her acknowledge your presence in her life and then propose. Otherwise it could lead to dire consequences; 'coz you see Indian laws are inclined towards women protection!
2. Sending a text message or Facebook message.
One needs to have eye-contact while making others believe in you and your capabilities. That's how you crack the nut. Messages won't just suffice and might as well scare the girl off, if she's not too into you! Besides if she 'blocks' you; you won't even be able to Facebook-stalk her whenever you want. So, its a No.
3. Proposing when her mood is too crabby.
Maybe her boss yelled at her or maybe her best friend wore the same dress to a party even after agreeing on not to. Whatever it is, its a big red flag when she's mad at something and you right away propose.
4. Asking others to convey your love/Not telling her exactly that you love her.
Of course proposing love is similar to subjecting yourself to some sick test where you either pass and leap high or fail and dive to rock bottom. But then, you gotta be courageous; for its love!
5. Proposing in front of her boss or members of the family.
While you think proposing in front of a boss urgently would be romantic or sound like a ''2-States'' movie proposal; its gonna be a fiasco indefinitely; especially when you don't know what her answer would be. So, save yourself from a heart break status.
6. Last Day Proposal
Proposing on the last day or eleventh hour in Bollywood style thinking she would cancel her plans to grab that lucrative job or stop marrying that guy after listening to you is pure crap! Don't wait till its too late.
7. Proposing her just after her break-up.
Okay, you might be the happiest person on earth after knowing about her break-up with a worthless man. But dude, you gotta contain your happiness and wait till the moment she gets over the break-up; else you're gonna have to deal with her and her ex too!
Just be yourselves and show the thunder. Maybe even after doing everything right, you might not succeed sometimes. But remember, she's the one to lose and not you.
Following are few points one should AVOID while proposing a girl of one's dreams:
1. Meet her at some random place and pop out the words "Baby! I Love You" in a jiffy.
You may have known her for ages, but maybe she never noticed you. Its safe to get to know her better and make her acknowledge your presence in her life and then propose. Otherwise it could lead to dire consequences; 'coz you see Indian laws are inclined towards women protection!
2. Sending a text message or Facebook message.
One needs to have eye-contact while making others believe in you and your capabilities. That's how you crack the nut. Messages won't just suffice and might as well scare the girl off, if she's not too into you! Besides if she 'blocks' you; you won't even be able to Facebook-stalk her whenever you want. So, its a No.
3. Proposing when her mood is too crabby.
Maybe her boss yelled at her or maybe her best friend wore the same dress to a party even after agreeing on not to. Whatever it is, its a big red flag when she's mad at something and you right away propose.
4. Asking others to convey your love/Not telling her exactly that you love her.
Of course proposing love is similar to subjecting yourself to some sick test where you either pass and leap high or fail and dive to rock bottom. But then, you gotta be courageous; for its love!
5. Proposing in front of her boss or members of the family.
While you think proposing in front of a boss urgently would be romantic or sound like a ''2-States'' movie proposal; its gonna be a fiasco indefinitely; especially when you don't know what her answer would be. So, save yourself from a heart break status.
6. Last Day Proposal
Proposing on the last day or eleventh hour in Bollywood style thinking she would cancel her plans to grab that lucrative job or stop marrying that guy after listening to you is pure crap! Don't wait till its too late.
7. Proposing her just after her break-up.
Okay, you might be the happiest person on earth after knowing about her break-up with a worthless man. But dude, you gotta contain your happiness and wait till the moment she gets over the break-up; else you're gonna have to deal with her and her ex too!
Just be yourselves and show the thunder. Maybe even after doing everything right, you might not succeed sometimes. But remember, she's the one to lose and not you.
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